DISTANCE IS OKAY!!!
I have been going through a lot - mainly finding myself again and managing all my relationships (family, girlfriend, girlfriend’s family, friends, co-workers).
Think about all the relationships you have. If you notice that some are strained, then it has come time to create that “missing you” feeling. Not all distance is bad, especially for your mental space.
I know firsthand that if you do not put some space in between people and situations, you will drive yourself insane!
One thing I can say is that me and my friends have been in contact with each other, but have physically been separated for a long time now. It really makes me appreciate the linking up even more.
But then, on the other hand have those people that you almost have to distance yourself from. They will come into your space, bring their bulls**t with them, then demand that you clean up their mess, and it honestly will interrupt your peace. That has to to go. I’ve come to the point where I can’t deal with anyone else’s messes besides what I create.
